Or is now the perfect time? I love my wife, I'm very happy don't get me wrong. There was a time when people had the decency to wait until they were approaching 50 to have a mid-life crisis. Midlife crisis at 35? Now it seems many thirtysomethings find themselves succumbing to … If you look up “mid-life crisis” or “quarter-life crisis,” you'll get a ton of hits. Two months ago I spent all the money I've ever had on a track house in the suburbs where I spend my days playing video games and working while my wife stresses out about how much house we have to decorate. I just got married last year. PS; Before I get any cranky comments, I … Is 35 too young for a mid-life crisis? Lately I haven't felt much like myself. Or maybe I've never really felt like myself. Babbling about how I'm feeling in the lead up to my birthday next week.